SEPARATION

In the name of Allah, The Most Merciful and The Most Loving

This post is dedicated to my beloved younger sister..She is in matriculation now..yesterday was her registration day. Sadly, I was not there with her.. =( but i'll make it up later..i Promise!

My sister, she is the sweetheart of the family. Never complaints and very obedient. We heart her so much!

Although, she has grew up now, she is still the baby in the family..ahhhh...how time flies so fast..and i'm thankful that i can still witness her growing process..

Now, she is away..taken miles away from home to seek knowledge and become a better person..InsyaAllah..i'm not a perfect sister but i do pray for her best and become a great muslimah..insyaAllah.

Being away from family is indeed a freedom, but it comes with huge responsibility!..i told her so..and matriculation life is never easy..expect the worst but keep calm..i added..i think she can comprehend it well..

Separation teaches us to grow stronger emotionally and mentally..we become creative because we want to survive..we want to live!..yes!..indeed

See how the muhajirins creatively adapts to the new environment in Madinah, after separated from their homes..study how the muhajirins get connected with the ansars and built strong relationship..that is the price of Hijrah...to be separated from your current state to  a new climate..we have to make use of everything around us in order to survive and to achieve our ultimate goal which is Jannah! and we have to eliminate the none important things so that we can lessen our burdens...

Hopefully, my sister will do great and may success be with her in this world and hereafter..InsyaAllah..

M.

Minggu-minggu akhir sebagai mahasiswa sarjana muda

Bila langkah mula perlahan,

Bila kudrat makin tertahan-tahan,

Ayuh!..bangkit mensucikan diri.

Bila kepala mula terasa panas memikirkan logik dan fakta,

Bila tangan mula kebas menari-nari diatas papan kekunci,

Bila kaki mula lenguh, duduk tanpa henti...

Ayuh! berwuduklah..

Sejukkan kepala, hilangkan lenguh dan kebas.

Bila bosan menanti pada yang belum pasti,

Bila sakit menunggu jawapan tak kunjung tiba,

Ayuh! sujudlah kepada yang SATU,

Dia yang memiliki segala-galanya.

Pendekkan madahmu dengan manusia,

Panjangkanlah doamu dengan Pencipta,

kerana..

"Hanya kepadaMu aku sembah, dan hanya kepadaMu aku meminta pertolongan"

La Tahzan!..Innallahama'na

Ar-Rahman, Ar-Rahim

Ar-rahman..Ar-rahim…

Hayunan langkah dalam jalan mujahaddah tidak selalunya senang…ada kala meter iman melonjak tinggi..pada masa lain pula meter iman seakan meminta top-up!...tapi sungguh Allah itu Ar-rahman, Ar-rahim..maha pengasih dan maha penyayang..

Sedar tak sedar hampir setengah tahun sudah berlalu…satu tempoh yang terasa sangat singkat.dalam tempoh itu saya mengenal kehidupan dari sisi yang berbeza…mula cuba membuka mata hati.tapi kudrat diri masih belum mampu mengenal cinta hakiki…

Bagaimana nak kusyuk kalau tak kenal Allah!..nah…panahan tepat ‘headshot’ kena pada diri..hati menangis..betapa saya tak kenal pencipta saya…bagaimana nak undang tangis dalam doa kalau diri masih angkuh dengan dosa lama!..sekali lagi diri ditarbiah…terduduk!

Biar dalam tawa ustaz memberi ilmu…tapi hati si penerima cukup terkesan…sampai bila?sampai bila masih mahu menyalahkan takdir..kenapa dan mengapa yang masih bermain difikiran…jauh di sudut hati masih mengharap takdir yang berbeza..seketika diri lupa akan janji untuk redha dan bertawakal..

Itulah sifat manusia..yang sentiasa bersoal-soal…sehingga buntu mencari jawapan..Dalam surah al-mulk, Allah mencabar kita untuk mencari kekurangan dalam setiap penciptaanNya termasuk takdirNya, dan pasti kita akan gagal menemukan kecatatan.

Every bad things are the pleasure in disguise…yup!..setiap yang buruk pasti ada hikmah..tapi kita lah (merujuk pada diri sendiri) yang malas nak berfikir dan mencari hikmah..lebih mudah menyalahkan. Hidup selalu tergesa2…mengejar apa yang diluar lingkungan tangan..tapi lupa untuk mengaudit amalan dan fikiran..apakah hari ini saya berkelakuan seperti ahli surga?masih jauh….kena usaha.

Saya berharap, mereka yang diluar sana…yang sama seperti saya..mengharapkan sinar Illahi…yang masih tercari-cari tujuan hidup…kenallah Ar-rahman, Ar-rahim…biar sedikit mana pun usaha kita..Allah tak pernah lengah…Allah pasti akan beri perhitungan..semua manusia itu baik dari fitrahnya…yang tersasar itu ujian…langkah kembali itulah hikmah!

Ayuh kita ingat kisah seorang lelaki dalam surah yassin..Dia kembali kepada kaumnya sambil berkata “ikutilah orang yang tidak meminta imbalan darimu”…orang ini sungguh telah menemukan Penciptanya..dia kenal dengan seluruh jiwanya…dan dia ingin semua orang tahu akan tingginya kasih dan sayang Allah agar kita dapat bersama-sama menghuni surganya.Sungguh surga itu adalah sebaik-baik tempat kembali…kouta sebagai ahli surga masih terbuka buat kita selagi masih bernyawa…

Kembali..kembali…dan kembali mengenali Ar-rahman, Ar-rahim…

Wallahu’alam,

M.

Siapa aku?

Assalamualaikum w.b.t,

Bismillahirahmanirahim...kali ni saya nak lari dari membaca journal2 yang tak pernah habis..huhu..penangan PSM or Projek Sarjana Muda..hmm...tepu sangat meng'edit' jadi meh kita bebel2 di ruangan blog ni...untung2 ada sedikit kelegaan selepas menulis... ^^,

Jadi tajuk kali ni...Siapa aku?..hmmm...siapa ek...hee...kenal ke?macam tak kenal je kan...sebab kita selalu berubah..the only unchanged thing in the world is 'changes'...yup!...satu benda yang tak berubah dalam dunia ini adalah PERUBAHAN...jadi people change by nature....fitrah semula jadi...oleh itu proses mengenal diri tak akan pernah tamat...always discover new things about yourself....insyaAllah makin tinggi rasa takwa kepada Al-Aliim...

Siapa saya?

Saya orang Islam...Islam sejak lahir...dah 23 tahun menjadi seorang muslim...TAPI...berimankah saya?insyaAllah...hidup sentiasa bertauhidkan Allah...

Dulu....

Dalam mencari fakta duniawi...diri khilaf mencari erti akhirat...langkah pincang...penuh longlai...Islam pada nama, dalam I/C, dalam surat beranak...tapi bila disoal tentang iman dan Islam....diri tunduk malu menghadap realiti...salah siapa?....no one but myself...jadi apa beza saya dan arab jahiliah dulu?iya..saya tak sembah berhala...takde patung2 disembah...tapi diri lupa bahwa sembahan tu bukan hanya pada fizikal..tapi pada abstrak juga...benar...bila kita tak kenal Khaliq...kita jauh dari Dia.

Ironinya....

Saya mengenal semula bibit2 kemanisan Islam dari kelompok mereka yang orang anggap sembahyang 'lain kiblat'...mereka2 yang sempoi pada luaran,zahiriah..tak berkopiah..tak bertudung labuh..tapi masih mengamalkan Islam dalam setiap tingkah laku...dengan mereka..MasyaAllah pertama kali saya solat berjemaah di tepi pantai saat kami berkhelah...perasaan yang sangat asing tapi damai buat saya...jangan salah anggap bukan saya menidakkan usaha dakwah yang lain..tapi mungkin Allah buka hati saya dengan cara ini..

Kadang2 benda simple dan remeh kita lupakan..kita sibuk mengejar erti yang terlalu kompleks...sehingga kita lupa orang yang perlu ditarbiah itu masih cetek pemahamannya...ada pula yang terlalu extremist dengan lancang melabel kami yang masih bertatih ini sebagai percemar Islam.."jangan bercakap kalau tak cukup ilmunya" "bila bercakap nampak bodoh,jangan main dengan hukum Allah" "mana hadis dan dalilnya?"...Allahu Allah...adakah diri yang bercakap itu lupa bahwa yang berilmu itu akan lebih dipertanggungjawab atas ilmunya...akan disoal tentang hak ilmunya berbanding si jahil....kita acap kali lupa "don't insult, preach!"...ya..jangan hina tapi sampaikanlah ilmu itu...jelaskan dengan berhemah..bukankah itu satu bentuk dakwah...ibarat pucuk muda yang baru berputik,jika dicantas pasti akan gagal untuk tumbuh dengan sempurna..maka natijahnya pada siapa?

Kita perlu berubah..

ya...ibarat kata ustaz ebit lew....malu kita dengan Rasulullah...Baginda seorang, Islam tersebar satu dunia..kita yang ramai...apa yang ada?

ini hanya luahan seorang gadis yang haus akan ilmu akhirat..yang hidupnya acap kali menggugat 6 rukun iman..fitrah hati sangat ingin ditarbiyah..hati yang kotor perlu dibersihkan..tapi kerana terjahan2 kasar...ada kala semangat mulai luntur...hina sangat kah orang yang baru nak kenal Islam dengan jiwanya?tidak semua beruntung dilahirkan dalam Islamic environment...dan bukankah juga iman tak dapat diwarisi...jadi sentuhlah jiwa dengan hemah bukan dengan herdikan..

Syukur...

saya bersyukur kerana Allah bukakan jalan buat saya...Allah beri kekuatan bila mana diri rasa lemah...Allah ringankan mulut untuk saya meminta bantuan...Allah permudahkan bila saya rasa sukar..Allah hantar penolong bagi memimpin jalan...tapi berapa ramai lagi yang diluar sana masih jauh?adakah mereka yang berilmu itu mampu mendabik dada bila masih ramai jiwa muda yang lalai dan hanyut...apakah dengan ilmu itu memberi mandat pada mereka untuk menghukum...jangan begitu...kami perlu dibantu...bukan dipinggir

Bangkit...

kepada sesiapa yang mungkin sedang atau bakal menempuh jalan hijrah (penghijrahan jiwa)...ingatlah bahawa Islam itu hak semua..sesungguhnya agama yang diredhai hanyalah Islam...jadi jangan mudah mengalah dalam jalan mujahaddah....khilaf itu biasa..sebab kita bukan maksum..kita hina disisi Allah...diciptakan dari air yang hina (air mani)...jadi jangan takut bila khilaf tapi bangkitlah!..jika ada bibit calar, beredarlah dengan sopan dan cari jalan lain..insyaAllah Allah permudahkan...kita bukan bodoh, cuma masih belum tahu...bila dah tahu, usaha sehabis baik untuk amalkan...kata seorang ustaz, nak kenal Islam, kukuhkan akidah...rukun iman yang 6..lain2 jangan fikir dulu..sikit2 kita tambah...

Hidup bukan sebarang hidup. Babi dihutan pun hidup,tapi dengan harta orang. Anjing dijalanan juga hidup, tapi dengan tulang belulang. Kucing dirumah juga hidup tapi dengan sisa. Sesungguhnya hidup seorang insan itu berbeza -Hamka

kalau bukan kita yang mencari dan memberi makna pada hidup kita, takut2 nanti kita mati sebelum mati...ibarat kata saidina Ali r.a "manusia itu tidur ketika hidup, tapi berjaga ketika mati"...sebab kematian dan akhirat itulah kehidupan yang sebenar

Waallu'alam...

Sincerely,

M.

Seminar Perubatan Islam (SePI)

Entry Bahasa Melayu

Assalamualaikum...

Bismillahirahmanirahim...apa khabar semuanya? Fi Hifzillah, Semoga dalam pemeliharaan Allah..=)..entry kali ni merupakan entry yang dah agak lama saya peram sebelum ada kesempatan untuk 'up' kan ke blog..huhu..jadi meh kita pendekkan mukadimah and straight to the point!..

Ni sebenarnya saya nak cerita tentang satu seminar perubatan islam yang saya sempat pergi pada 20 Mac 2013 yang lalu..(haa..kan dah cakap yang dah lama peram story ni...huhu)..

Kami dapat fail ^_^

Mengambil universiti yg bertempat di selatan tanah air sebagai lokasi..secara kebetulan ustaz yang mengendalikan seminar pada malam itu merupakan ustaz saya sewaktu disekolah menengah dahulu...(lagi la semangat nak datang~~)..beliau memang terkenal dengan sikap bersahaja dalam menyampaikan ceramah..banyak yang jadi follower ustaz ni..^^,..nama beliau Ustaz Rifqi..Syukran ustaz atas ilmunya..semoga Allah memberkati..

Ustaz rifqi sedang tekun menyampaikan ceramah

Kenapa perubatan Islam tu penting??

Penting ke?persoalan yang bermain diminda sewaktu saya berkira-kira sama ada nak menghadiri seminar tu atau tak...hmm..kotak pemikiran yang masih hijau mula memutar2 cerita-cerita seram kat wayang/Tv...selalu orang baca ayat2..pastu keluar api2..badan si pesakit terapung-apung..pastu jin/syaitan yang rasuk dia pun keluar!..erk...macam tu ke sebenarnya perubatan islam?yeke?hmm...kalau kat WHI setiap hari khamis pulak tv3 akan jemput pengamal darul syifa' untuk bagi komentar tentang perubatan islam..konsepnya mudah; pesakit datang, perawat akan scan dengan bacaan2 tertentu dan kemudian siri pemulihan akan dirangka bertetapan dengan sakit yang dialami pesakit...

Jadi apa sebenarnya Perubatan Islam ni?

Menurut ust Rifqi, perubatan islam terangkum pada perubatan moden dan perubatan alternatif yakni yang menggunakan ayat2 tertentu dalam kitab suci Al-quran sebagai penguat kepada perubatan moden yang dah diambil oleh pesakit...bukankah "dari Allah kita datang, kepadaNya kita kembali"? jadi sewajarnya setiap usaha yang kita buat itu wajib disandarkan dengan rasa takwa dan tawakal kepada Allah SWT.

Beberapa amalan penting sebagai pendinding diri ^^,

>> Ayat kursi dengan bacaan 9 wakaf

>> Makan kurma ajwah (7biji) / mana2 kurma madinah

>> Sentiasa dalam wuduk

>> Qiyamula'il

>> Baca doa sebelum/selepas ke tandas

>> Sebelum tidur (Wuduk + ayat kursi + zikir + 3qul)

>> Zikir selepas maghrib (Surah al-Baqarah (1-5) , ayat kursi, al- Baqarah (256-257), (284-285), (286); ayat2 al-Baqarah dalam al-mathurat)

>> Sentiasa baca bismillah semasa nak pakai baju

Sebenar perubatan islam ni boleh untuk semua jenis penyakit dan bukan hanya tertumpu pada kes2 sihir dan gangguan syaitan sahaja..Jadi mari buka minda dan tambah ilmu!Setiap penyakit itu ada penawarnya kecuali mati..

Sekian sekadar coretan dari sisi hijau yang masih mencari cahaya illahi...

#ChillaxAllahKanAda

Sincerely,

M.

:: The untold tale of what we call 'Wedding' ::

Bismillahirahmanirahim..

Peace be upon you..today's entry is about W to the E to the double D, I, N, G..WEDDING!...okay so basically this entry is related to the previous one..still remember the 'seminar srikandi'?..yeap..that is the one...hehe..so what's up for today?...allow me to share a few things that i have collected at the program..its actually the sequel from the previous one..(seminar srikandi - semasa perkahwinan)...for a married couple...buttttt~....the single and solo one also can participate too lehh~..^_^ (please ignore the colloquial accent..)

Why I named this entry as :: The untold tale of what we call 'Wedding' :: ?

Its clear enough that we or to be more specific me, myself, the writer of this blog, the one who has limited capacity to absorb thousands of new knowledge has insufficient knowledge on what wedding is all about..there are still lots to discover..many untold stories to be heard. So that is the reason why i named the entry as it is.. =)

The talk was conducted by Hjh Faizah bt Zainuddin, a syarie'e lawyer from Johor. Her talk was very casual but full with important information regarding Islamic marriage especially in Johor. She owns a firm and she offers consultancy services to those who are in need. That's a little bit about the speaker's background..now lets jump to the discussion..shall we? ^_^

Why Islam advice it's believers to have a proper wedding?

Islam is a religion that bring justice to those who have faith in it..Allah is the Most Merciful..therefore, a proper wedding - complete with the legal wali, the 'rukun nikah', the dowry for the bride and the understanding of the dos and don'ts in marriage are completely essential to whomever wants to get married. This will help the couple-to-be to have a solid preparation before they immerse themselves in the world of marriage.

An engagement call off!!

In Johor's Law of Islamic marriage, a man or a woman can sue their partner in court if their engagement is being called off without any concrete reason according to the court. A man/ woman whose partner has decided to cancel their engagement has the right to demand for the total expenses that they spent for the engagement and also for the wedding's preparation..an advice from Hjh Faizah - keep the receipt of every purchases!..this will come in handy.. =) 

Mas kahwin~~~~~ dowry!..

yeay!!^_^v...I just love to talk about this part..ngehehe...why??alaaahhh....I bet all women out their are expert in this...do I really need to talk bout this?seriously? @_@...hee...but since dowry is part of the wedding process, so lets just proceed..wink!..okayyyy..for those who do not know, dowry for Johorian is only RM22.50!...(murahnyerrrrr....kan3....sedih..huhu)...for other states, the dowry is different..so..murah je kan nak kahwin orang johor ni..but that is not all fellas!..Johor is famous with its rules and regulations regarding Islamic wedding...quiet tough ya' know..huhu...so don't take it easy on Johorian ladies..^^,...the couple-to-be must undergo HIV test, able to prove their wali's status i.e birth certificate and the wedding certificate for the woman's family..they must also undergo interview session as part of their preparation for the marriage..susah?hmm...if there is will, there must be a way!..

One?two?three or four?! #Eyh!

This is not some-random-counting-without-intention...this is about the number of wife/wives a guy can have. True, Islam allows polygamy - a man with more than one wife...ladies, love it or hate it.....polygamy is real in Islam...but don't Islam always protect women?..so there are rules that must be followed if a husband wants to have more than one wife. According to Johor's Islamic family act, the husband must get the permission from the current wife and the husband must agree to the terms and conditions made by the wife in order for the court to allow polygamy....if the husband fail to follow the T&C, the first wife can bring this issue in court!..now...be careful guys..we are the modern women..we know the act in law...^^,

Talak?What if i-hate-you-and-i-don't-want-to-be-with-you-ANYMORE?

Briefly, divorce is not encourage in Islam but under certain circumstances, divorce cannot be avoided and to Allah we seek forgiveness..in order to divorce, one must understand the 'rukun talak' - the speaker (husband), the receiver (wife), the saying (lafaz talak). Talak can be categorized in two types, with intention or without intention. If the husband says the talak with intention, the talak is automatically legal..but if the husband says i.e "aku dah tak nak tengok muka kau!" "Keluar dari rumah ni!", etc without intention to divorce the wife, the talak can still be argued/discussed. And women must know their right after being divorced by the husband and also the iddah..

In a nutshell...

Islam is complete...always brings justice to people and Allah is Perfect!..but many are still ignorance about Islam and its rule..many are still blind to see the perfection in Islam..as for me, this small talk by Hjh Faizah has opened my eyes to really understand why Islam is the only way of life..Islam gives rules and solutions..sometimes Allah gives discount..it is us who fail to understand..it is us who are ignorance..

Wedding is just a part of life..we have a lot others..wedding is just an example..how Allah has made a beautiful path for us to follow..and still we sometimes diverge..

Sekadar hiasan ^_^v

p/s: Barakallahulakuma wa baraka, Alaikum wa jamma'a alaikuma fil khair

Have faith #chillaxAllahKanAda

Sincerely,

M.

Lets pack our day with knowledge!

Assalamualaikum...

Bismillahirahmanirahim...

For the past few days I was trying my best to make myself busy..(warghh..dilemma as project-based student..loads of free time but don't know what to do!..-,-)..Soooo...I decided to attend a few classes (academic and non-academic) just to occupy my free time..Let me share you a short journey of what I have gained from the classes...^_^

1. Malaysia and Lahad Datu (Wednesday, 13 March 2013)

Recently Malaysia has been shocked by the tragedy in Sabah and to be more specific, Lahad Datu..So on that day, my university invited two speakers, one from UMS itself and the other is from UTMKL..both of them were talking about Sabah and Sulu, the historical issues and international maritime..

What causes the Lahad Datu's Tragedy?both of the speakers justify the facts and figures in which I am pretty sure that I have lost in space..huhu...(talking about history class?yeahh...I am no good with that..)

But my point here is that we have to remember who we are, what we made from, and what creates us...So in Lahad Datu's tragedy, it opens the eyes of the mass in regards to the importance of history, documentation and nationality..Surely one cannot claim the land is theirs if there are no prove..this is where the historical legal documents are needed.."Those who forget history tends to repeats them"...history is very close to us, muslim...we have what we call 'sirah'..and indeed Quran is the best reference when it comes to history..don't Allah always repeats in His words on how human were created?..human are made from semen(sperm) and earth..to those who understands this, how can we be so arrogant to Allah?we are nothing more than a mixture of sperm and earth, placed in women' womb to grow and be kept safe..aren't we should be thankful?

So indeed history is everything...it is where we know our roots...our originality..without history, we are nobody...(headshot!..=,=)...when we know history, and better, our own history...we make extra caution when we plan for our next step..we are more mature because we know that we had sacrificed something in the past in order to gain something better in future..we won't want our sacrifices come to waste won't we?

What can we learn from history?tons!...so never ever fall asleep during history class or sirah class..=,=!..those whomever forget their history will tend to repeat them....keep that in mind my fellow friends..^_^

2. Mutiara Sri Kandi part 1 ( Women' rights before marriage ) Friday, 15 March 2013

I allocate one and a half hour during Jum'ah prayer time to attend this short 'munakahad' class conducted by Islamic center at my uni...Alhamdulillah, even though I am not feeling too well on that day, Allah has eased my way to attend the class...my intention is one, I want to be prepared...prepared for what?you know the answer...^_^..

Alhamdulillah, after I finished reading Sebelum Aku Bernikah by Hilal Asyraf, it feels like "This time I want to be prepared..not just some bidan terjun!..wedding in Islam is more than just combining two different genders in one house...the 'akad' carries HUGE responsibility.." So why not prepare now?!

Briefly, the content of the talk is divided into two parts...1. The right to say yes and no and 2.The Wali..

Now, Islam gives the voice to the women to either agree or disagree with the choice of their parents..this is what we call diplomacy..discuss and make mutual agreement...so that nobody is hurt..Though the father of the woman has the right to accept any guy as his son-in-law but the woman still has the voice to speak out her opinion...

The second part is wali...I bet most of us understand the meaning of wali but the complicated part is the 'wali-chain' (aturan keutamaan wali)...why wali is so important in Islam?because we want to protect the nasab (susur galur keturunan)...in most cases, those who were born before marriage or adopted child will face the problem with wali..(the explanation on wali is too long for this entry, so please do refer to other source or surah an-nisa')

---- Conclusion, "Fall in love not fall into love"...get the blessing from your parents and monitor your degree of love!

Sincerely,

M.